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A lot of people are unsure of what bi curious means. This is something that is becoming more and more popular as people want to experiment with their sexuality. A person that is bi curious is a person that thinks that they may be attracted to people of both the opposite sex as well as people of the same sex. You will find that there are a few ways to find out for sure if you are bisexual.

Experiment

Being able to experiment is something that can help a lot of people to understand whether or not they are actually bisexual. You will need to make sure that you experiment with both sexes. If you enjoy having sex with both men and women, then you are a bisexual, however, if you prefer sex with just one, then you are not.

Attraction

Thinking a person is attractive verses thinking that they are sexually attractive are 2 very different things. You will find that this is something that a lot of people are confused with. You will need to make sure that you understand if you think a person is attractive or if you want to actually have sex with them.

Curiosity

Simply being curious is something that is fairly common. If you find yourself attracted to both sexes and wonder what sex would be like with both, then this is a curiosity that you should look into further if it is something that truly interests you. However, it is also a good idea to flirt with the idea until you feel more comfortable with it.

A bi male is a male that has sexual thoughts or tendencies while still being attracted to women. A bi male may be sexually aroused by both genders and want to experiment. This is something that is very common and can be a lot of fun and can help you to learn a lot about yourself.

Not Gay

A bi male is not a person that is gay. A gay person only has sex with people of the same sex as them. A bisexual person will have sex with both genders. They may prefer one gender over the other but if they are attracted to both sexes, then they are not a gay person.

Not Straight

If a man is bisexual, then they are not straight. Just because they may date women and have sex with them, they are still not straight if they have sex with men as well. A man that has sex with both men and women is a person that is considered a bisexual, not gay or straight. Bisexual means a mix between both gay and straight.

Dating

There are a lot of different options when it comes to dating as a bisexual. A bisexual man may date both men and women at the same time. It is important that they are honest with their partners so that there are no surprises down the road. If they wish to date both sexes at the same time, then they will need to make sure that each partner is okay with this situation.

Sexuality is fluid, and not set in stone. Many people assume that since so many labels exist that it must be a black and white thing. It’s not though, and there are so many different facets to how people think and feel that there is no way a single label will fit everyone. It’s very possible to be bisexual in one aspect and not in others.

Oral Sex

For many people oral sex is a form of foreplay, and not actual sex. For these people being orally bi may be easy. This is because they aren’t expressing a form of intimacy with oral sex that they are with intercourse. For others they may enjoy the way oral sex feels, and it doesn’t matter what gender performs it. The same can be said in reverse, there are those who enjoy giving and gender isn’t an issue. Oral sex is also easy for those who are just starting to explore other options and avenues with their sexuality.

Does That Make Me Bisexual

Again, labels aren’t always going to fit everyone. If you don’t feel comfortable describing yourself as bisexual, then simply don’t. If you are starting a new relationship the topic will come up eventually. Someone who truly cares about you won’t care about this either. Most people will assume you are bisexual if you share this openly, but that doesn’t mean you have to do anything you don’t want to do. On the same note, if you decide to try more and it isn’t for you, you don’t owe an explanation to anyone. You simply enjoy oral sex, end of story.