Sexuality is fluid, and not set in stone. Many people assume that since so many labels exist that it must be a black and white thing. It’s not though, and there are so many different facets to how people think and feel that there is no way a single label will fit everyone. It’s very possible to be bisexual in one aspect and not in others.
Oral Sex
For many people oral sex is a form of foreplay, and not actual sex. For these people being orally bi may be easy. This is because they aren’t expressing a form of intimacy with oral sex that they are with intercourse. For others they may enjoy the way oral sex feels, and it doesn’t matter what gender performs it. The same can be said in reverse, there are those who enjoy giving and gender isn’t an issue. Oral sex is also easy for those who are just starting to explore other options and avenues with their sexuality.
Does That Make Me Bisexual
Again, labels aren’t always going to fit everyone. If you don’t feel comfortable describing yourself as bisexual, then simply don’t. If you are starting a new relationship the topic will come up eventually. Someone who truly cares about you won’t care about this either. Most people will assume you are bisexual if you share this openly, but that doesn’t mean you have to do anything you don’t want to do. On the same note, if you decide to try more and it isn’t for you, you don’t owe an explanation to anyone. You simply enjoy oral sex, end of story.